What made
you guys want to adopt?
Well, for me,
the story goes as far back as when I was a young girl.
I always had a desire to help orphans. I dreamed of visiting an
orphanage and taking care of the little ones there. I searched the US
for orphanages so I didn't have to travel overseas. I was young at
this point and didn't understand orphanages were not in the US, but
my desire to help orphans stayed strong.
When I was in
High School, My appendix burst and I lost one ovary because of it. At
that time, the Doctor told me my chances of having kids are not very
high. When dating Andy, I shared this sad news with him and we
playfully imagined having 2 little Chinese girls in the back of our
car. But then God worked a miracle. He gave us 4 amazing children of
our own, and then we were told by my doctor we no longer
should have more children because it would put me at risk for
problems. We had always talked about adoption. Even in the midst of
having our own. So, it was always in the back of our minds and in
our hearts. But it was 2 ½ years after we had our 4th
child, Eli, our hearts became heavier for orphans. We prayed and God
led us to the point we are at now.
Don't you
think 4 children is enough?
We are not
adopting because we feel like we don't have enough children or the
children we have don't fulfill us. We are adopting in obedience to
God. Our job as God's children is to care for the orphans. It may
not be for everybody, but God has put it on our hearts and we are
being obedient to His will.
Why China?
Well, China
actually chose us. We chose Hong Kong. Everything about Hong Kong
seemed to be a better fit for our family so we pursued a child in HK,
but God did not say yes. Instead, the social workers directed us to
adopt from China. There are so many more orphans in China than in
Hong Kong. The medical needs of the children in Hong Kong are much
more severe and the children up for adoption tend to be older. The
more we researched HK, the more we realized our family is more
suitable for China.
Isn't
adoption expensive? You must have been saving up for 10 years for
this?!
Yes, adoption
is expensive. And No, we haven't been saving up for years. We are
fully depending on God to cover the costs of our adoption. If this is
God's will, we have no doubt He will provide the finances we need to
bring our child home. Our plan is to pray, apply for grants, do
fundraisers, have a rummage sale, and depend on God. It is a leap of
faith, but He can move the mountains!
How much have you spent so far?
On the left is a thermometer that tells the amount it is to adopt, $32,000(our goal) and the amount we have paid so far(amount raised).
Can you handle another child?
On the left is a thermometer that tells the amount it is to adopt, $32,000(our goal) and the amount we have paid so far(amount raised).
Can you handle another child?
“I
can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Philippians
4:13
So, to answer
the question – Yes, with God's strength, we can handle another
child. Without God, no, we could not. Whether we have 1 child, no
children, or 10 children, we need God's strength to get us through.
Do you have
to travel to China? Who will watch the kids?
Yes. It is a 2
week trip. We are praying about where the kids will stay when we are
away. We have some possibilities, but were still praying about it.
When will
you be adopting?
If
all goes smoothly with paperwork, our homstudy, and being matched
with a child we will be traveling to China around January of 2016 to
get our child. With that being said, it's in God's hands and His
timing is perfect.
Do you have
a child yet? Any preference?
No.
We have not been matched with a child yet. We are praying that God
let us know when our child is available and that we would know who he
or she is. Our heart tells us a boy and we'd like to bring home a
child under the age of 2, but it is in God's control.
How can you
help?
-Please pray
for us and our adoption journey.
-If you have
any fundraiser ideas, we would love to hear them.
-If you have
any items you would like to donate to our rummage sale, we would
really appreciate it! I think were aiming for June to have the sale.
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